How to Be Charming

How to Be Charming
By
Kristin Ferrell

You may find it strange
Or even alarming
But this is a poem about how to be charming.

In the days of your grandma,
Maybe even your aunt,
Kids were asked to be charming
But they said, “We can’t!!”

And the reason they couldn’t was simple, it’s true.
What they lacked was the poem
But that’s not true for you.

Being charming is more
Than merely having good taste
It’s more than your words
Being smart and well placed.

Charm is something we do
To be kind and sincere.
It’s about serving others
Without guile, without fear.

A charming soul
Is honest and true.
She says what she means
And she follows through.

When he feels like a cry
He’ll let the tears flow.

When you’ve stepped out of line
She’ll sure let you know.

Being charming means
Showing great self-control.
Never gobble three cupcakes,
Two croissants, and a roll.




Never hog all the limelight
For yourself with loud talking.
Stay away from idle gossip,
Foul jokes, and cruel mocking.

When a friend has a secret
To put in your ear
Make sure that you keep it
And let no one else hear.


Be the kind of true friend
That a buddy can trust.
For others to trust you,
Staying true is a must.

An expert in charm
Will try cool new things
From eating with chopsticks
To bouncy foot springs.

He’ll eat sushi for dinner;
At least, he’ll give it a try.
She’ll learn a new language
And speak it with pride!

Part of the charm game
Is remembering names.
Never call a guy William
If his real name is James.

People love to be remembered
And it’s kind if you will.
You’ll make tons of good friends
And their trust you’ll instill.

Charming people will look you
Straight in the eye.
They speak with a confidence
You really should try.

It feels great to be sure
Of yourself and your worth.
Charming people all know
They’ve been priceless since birth.

If you’re charming you will try
And be helpful and clean.
You’ll fold up your clothes
And keep your mess lean.

You’ll help your dad scrub off
Some pots, pans, and plates.
You’ll help your aunt Mona
Get the vines off her gates.

When a charming person finds
That she can’t quite agree
With another’s idea or philosophy
She will kindly decide to stand on her ground
And it’s all right with her if no agreement is found.

Charming people have talents,
Both great and small.
They can sing a cantata.
They can balance a ball.

They also remember
The great talents of others.
They love to clap loudly
For their sisters and brothers.


When somebody says
That you’re great at the tuba
Or skilled at the easel
Or fantastic at scuba…

Do you turn tail and run?
Turn twelve shades of red?
Do you say, “No I’m not!”
With three shakes of your head?

Being charming means
That you know that you’re splendid.
Take a compliment with a “Thank you!”
And smile like your friend did.

An expert in charm
Knows the value of doing.
She will read, write, and listen.
She has goals worth pursuing!

He’s got lawns to be mowed
And plans to be made!
He’s got homework to do
And marbles to trade!

Being charming can mean
That you keep right on dancing
When your muscles are aching
And your feet tired of prancing.

You keep playing piano,
Even when you feel weary
‘Cause you’ll WROCK at the concert!
And your mom’ll be teary.

You just keep right on truckin’
‘Cause you know in the end,
It’ll be worth the work
And the time that you’ll spend.

Being charming is NOT
For the faint-hearted or weak.
It is for the courageous.
To the victors I speak!

You can do this,
My heroes and heroines gallant!
Being charming will help you
In each race, ride, and talent.

You deserve a fun life
Full of friendship and meaning.
I really do hope
It’s this message you’re gleaning.

Charming people are made up
Of little white lights.
They’re made up of holidays,
Music, and kites.
They're made up of days
And made up of nights.




You can be charming!
Why, you’re half there already!
Stay happy and curious.
Be tactful and steady.

Let the world see your smile,
All gleaming and pleasant.
You’re a gift to the world!
The most precious, rare present.

You’ll meet plenty who’ll say
It’s not worth the endeavor
But you’ll know the truth,
And you’re much more clever.

Being charming is worth
every pinch in each bend.
Go out and try it!
I dare you!
THE END